Ok, so I will preface this by saying that I am not trying to make any political statement here. I’ve rarely (never) had any political commentary here on BackWords, so please do not construe this post as such.
Saturday afternoon, I was in New York celebrating my daughter’s tenth birthday when I heard of the tragedy in Arizona. I held my daughter close as she swallowed her birthday pizza when I heard that a 9 year old girl was amongst the fatalities. My heart goes out to everyone in Arizona, particularly those whose lives were directly impacted by this senseless act. My prayers are with the family of Christina Taylor Green as they mourn their unspeakable loss, and with the family of Representative Giffords as she embarks on what we all hope will be a speedy and good recovery.
In this time of loss, I feel it is important that we all take a moment to reflect upon the tone of political rhetoric in this country. With all of the talking heads, editorialists, and commentators out there, we are literally inundated with opinions and soundbites all day long. As such, it is very easy to forget that the words we all say carry weight, and effect those around us in different, yet meaningful ways.
Many studies have been done that underscore the actual effect words have. For example, studies have shown that if you repeat the same lie over and over (if I recall correctly, the magic number is 21 times) people will actually begin to adopt the lie as truth, even when logic tells them it is a lie. It is easy to see how similar repetition could have effects that extend out into other types of behaviors. With this knowledge, words become concrete entities- real life manifestations of our intent. Repeatedly using violence tinged metaphors can easily result in episodes like the one in Arizona.
I’m not blaming any party or individual other than the gunman who committed this horrible crime, so please don’t extrapolate anything beyond this: The rhetorical discourse being tossed about is more than just words being spoken. People really need to understand that when they say things, their words affect people. We all do it every day, and perhaps this is something we all need to consider before we open our mouths.
I would love to hear people discuss their differences, political or otherwise, without invoking hate speech, violent imagery, or other things which are at best disrespectful to those being targeted, and at worst potentially encouraging to the less stable folks amongst us to do horrific things.
Choose your words carefully, and give honest consideration to the meaning of what you are saying. Do your opinions need to be stated in ways that are threatening or insulting to those who don’t share your opinions? Can you educate people about your opinion without eviscerating those with a different approach? When did it become so hard to be kind to one another? Our nation was founded as a sanctuary for those who shared differing beliefs. We should all work hard to keep it that way.
Just something to think about.
Be well,
Andy





